On Saturday we went to the Ball. It was awesome and we've had a lot of fun in the beginning. We sat at the Commanders table and had conversations with the others and enjoyed the program. The General rocked the house and I have to say that he is a great singer and overall musician. After the ceremony was over everybody got up to dance. 'I' L'OVE DANCING! but my husband was like "Allright, let's go!" like ALWAYS!
He doesn't dance, he doesn't go to the club, no bars, no nothing and I am missing something in our relationship.
Seriously, I can't explain what it is but that night I had that feeling that there is something missing. I wanted to dance with him so bad, wanted to be on the dancefloor, feel his hand on my hip and have him whirling me around.... but oh well....that is never going to happen.
We've had an argument about it on the way back home and he told me that in every relationship he had the same problem and i can understand. I know how it feels not to be able to dance with the partner, there is something missing. I have no idea why it is so important to me. I can't tell but it is. I told him i'd just drop him off at home and go back to the ball on my own, but in the end i didn't do it. It probably would have been bad if i would have showed up there on my own without my husband.
We are good for now, we have no bad feelings about each other, we love and support each other as always but we still differ about the dancing part ....
He doesn't dance, he doesn't go to the club, no bars, no nothing and I am missing something in our relationship.
Seriously, I can't explain what it is but that night I had that feeling that there is something missing. I wanted to dance with him so bad, wanted to be on the dancefloor, feel his hand on my hip and have him whirling me around.... but oh well....that is never going to happen.
We've had an argument about it on the way back home and he told me that in every relationship he had the same problem and i can understand. I know how it feels not to be able to dance with the partner, there is something missing. I have no idea why it is so important to me. I can't tell but it is. I told him i'd just drop him off at home and go back to the ball on my own, but in the end i didn't do it. It probably would have been bad if i would have showed up there on my own without my husband.
We are good for now, we have no bad feelings about each other, we love and support each other as always but we still differ about the dancing part ....
4 comments:
yeah, it is hard to have thing that you love and not share with your husband. I will suggest that you just do your dancing without him, this way you guys don't get frustrated with each other. Afterall, everyone is different and has things that the other wouldn't like to do! I am sure there is somethingt that your husband really love and you could care less about (I know I am a very crafty person, love to do anything with my hands, paper craft, painting, needlecraft. Anything and everything. Well my husband is a man, so he doesnt' really like that! He like to see me enjoy it however, so he like me to go out with my girls and do it with them, even if it take a whole evening away from my family. I need my sanity and creativity is the way I get my sanity back. So he doesn't mind. And while he love to play "stupid" game online. I will let him do that, cause it make him happy!! So find a way to get your sanity and go dance with your friends. And tell your husband that youwould really like to have a dance in your living room sometime! ;-)
Good luck with that! I know it can be hard! BTW, My hubby is in Heidelberg! since this morning
That's good that you're good now.
Any pics to share?
Yah, I actually have some pics. Two of my dress before I got ready and put make up on and two of the general on the stage but I am not quite sure if I should put that on the internet ;)
Thank you so much for your input Anne. I always take your advise, especially since you are so much more experienced in certain things :)
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